Professional Commentaries

I am so sick of watching the Olympics on TVB (Cantonese channel in Hong Kong). In any sane nation, when it comes to the Olympics, they have the best professional from all areas of sports and top journalists covering stories or hosting live broadcasts.

Only in Hong Kong will they invite losers singers and actors and Miss Hong Kong to host the Olympics.

I am sick of their annoying comments like: "OMG, Phelps is so FAST in the pool!!"---What the fark, do we really need you to tell us he is fast?! or " Ooooo, Isinbaeva is just like Miss Universe!"---um, how about showing us the god damn World Record Pole Vault Jump (5.05m) instead of saying she is HOT! (they totally skipped that jump last night!~~ and the farking host said she failed all attempts when she had 1 more chance!!!! i want to BOMB their station!aghhhhhhh)

I wish I had moved out already, then i can watch olympics on Cable or HD channels, but now i am stuck with losers commentaries and annoying ugly Miss Hong Kong from morning till night! I hate Hong Kong sometimes!!! Pathetic!

Dream

I was not sure which movie we chose, the theatre was dark, the atmosphere seemed intense. I do not think it was a romance nor was it horror. I just know we were not concerned about the movie we were watching, we were just in our own world enjoying our moment together. The intimacy between us was strong, its like an electric pulse that connected us when our hands held tightly together.

Just when i wanted to concentrate on the movie, it seemed there was a strong current that pushed us out to another scenery. We flashed to a restaurant, it was decorated with flowers, i am not good with flowers, I just remember it was beautiful, and the scent was unforgettably my favourite perfume. The table was conveniently set on their balcony, it was over looking the ocean, with cool breeze brushing against my cheeks. I remember the aroma of strong coffee, but I cant remember the supposingly fantastic tasting menu,  I just remember we laughed alot during our conversation. The mood was so relax and it was like a holiday with no ending.

We took a short walk along the beach, the sky was filled with stars, there were so many, and it was just as I remember the starry night when I was visiting the australian country side in highschool. It was so vivid and real. The path we took led to a small villa, we went inside, there was a large bed, all in fresh white linens and fluffy pillows, its like the most comfortable bed that anyone could ever own. Then there was music, it was a familiar song sung by Lee Hom. The music and lyrics were getting louder and louder, and i was searching hard to where the stereo was...........

then my eyes was struggling to open, but I had to since the familiar hand was on my shoulder asking me to turned off my sonyericsson's alarm (yes.. was using lee hom's song for the alarm tone)

I rarely dream now days, and this one had got to be 1 of the best dream I had have for along time. How I wish i knew how the story continued, what happened after flopping ourselves on the nice bed.... wish there was no time limit and that i didn't need to get up for work that morning arghhhhhhhh. I was definitely reading too much, way to caught up in my romantic novel, Breaking Dawn. 

Wierd Xangans

Honestly, I had never blocked anyone from my xanga before. The only time which I did happened when I just first started blogging. I was reading alot of Chinese blogs back then, great to say I met some great xangans there, but there were some wierdos around.

There was this xangan named azurejan, the blog receives large numbers of subscribers, mostly females. The contents were mostly more girly stuff, things related to love and passages with a romantic essence (if I remember correctly). At the time, I was also 1 of the many female subscribers which keep up with its entries daily.

One fine day, azurejan posted another entry, this time the entry was slightly different. It was confession entry explaining how he was sorry for pretending to be a girl all this time, when he was actually a MALE blogger. I have to admit I was abit dumbfounded when reading that entry, since I didnt think why anyone will need to be hiding his gender when blogging. At the time, I was chatting to a xangan on msn, she reacted quite angrily to his confession and as a result, she commented on the post stating he was pretty much a freakshow for pretending to be girl all along when he was guy and also married etc etc..

I have to admit, I was abit turned off the fact someone would do that and its obvious he was just trying to meet more FEMALES acquitances? at the end, many subscribers left, and some blocked him including myself.

The point of the story is, today, my dearest Mika msn'ed me, asked me if I remember azurejan. I told her YES, and that I blocked him, I said I just remember him been some kind of a freakshow but cant really remember what he did exactly. She said she was briefly chatting to him the other day, and she asked him why he was no longer blogging (correct me if i am wrong Mika dear), his answer was, he no longer blogs because of ME. So mika was curious as to what happened between us (probably thought it was some mad affair and turned nasty, and that it slightly resembled to fatal attraction but in our case, no one was killed?).

I was like WTF? I dont even remember what happened back then, and I cant believe some people would still give a fark about this sort of shxt. You lost subcribers, so what? Its not like its the end of the farking world right!? I am just slightly Freaked out that someone would still remember the fact that I UNSUBCRIBED/BLOCKED HIM and still be talking about it after 2-3 years later(um.. its no wonder i blocked him, what a loser!)? You would think I got him arrested for been a pychopath on xanga and I made every girl who read his blog spat on him and as a result, he drowned from the Spits. I swear i did no such thing (or did i?), even if i did... its only INTERNET. People should really spend more time worrying about things in reality.

Olympics 080808

I am not slightly excited about the olympics opening ceremony tonight. Does that make me wierd?

I think i was more excited for Sydney Olympics in 2000.

Yea, I guess I dont really have a soft spot for China.

It seemed when olympics are held in other cities, there was not a huge fuss about it. I mean, there would be the usual propaganda, but in China, its not propaganda, its EVERYTHING. From traffic control, to controlling the weather, controlling the pollution, issue on tibet, mongolia and even taiwan. I hope the olympics will go smoothly for Beijing, at least, there wouldnt be so much talk afterwards.

posting 1:29am

its not beijing.. but a bomb in CAUSEWAY BAY? WTF?

news of the day

http://www.appleactionews.com/site/art_main.cfm?&iss_id=20080807&sec_id=6996647&art_id=11443602&dis_type=text&media_id=1

I figure I have to do a post for this link since most of you would not know how to read chinese.

it basically translates to below:

At around 12midnight, a 40 year old man was exercising on a park bench at a park near his residence. The man was performing push ups with his genital exposed. While he was performing push up, his genital will be by passing a inch diameter hole on the parkbench (please refer to picture). Unfortunately, during one of his odd "movement", his genital was stuck in the hole, and he was unable to remove his penis. He tried with blunt force, and it only hurt more. The 40 year old started screaming due to enormous pain, it startled a few pedestrians near by and they subsequently called 999 (equivalent to 911) for assistance.

When the Firemen arrived, man's penis was still throbbing and it would not deflate, fireman was not sure what they can do to help. After a short discussion, they called in 2 medical experts and also 2 doctors stationed at the near by hospital to the scene to assit with the rescue. Doctors had to insert 2 needles to remove blood from throbbing penis and try to get it to deflate on its own. At the end, Fireman had to cut the bench out from its stands, together with the bench, he was sent to the hospital for further treatment.

According to Firemen, it was believe the victim had been taking drug similar to viagra before "exercising"

what a lunatic.. he wanted to fark a park bench!? shxt, there are so many wierdos here in HK.

Bad Ass

As inspired by brandonlkj, I want to elaborate the topic of the GOOD GUY, BAD GUY. It seesm statiscally (thats just asking all of my girlfriends which is around 10? ....), 100% of girls prefer BAD BOYS. I for one preferred bad boy too, and now married to one @_@.

I guess guys in general are dumbfounded by this idea, they just dont understand why girls would prefer having a bad ass boyfriend instead of picking the good guy. The answer is simple, GIRLS dont define BAD BOY the same way as guys.

Guys usually associate BAD with cheating or having 10 girlfriends at the same time (and that there are still around 20 hot girls lining up to hook up with them). But girls dont want BAD ASS boyfriend that cheats on them! BAD in our dictionary just means FUN and not BORING, ok, maybe he can have 1 bad vice, thats usually drinking or smoking (not a bad vice to me as I smoke too), or in my case GAMBLING -_-, but note, its never ever BAD ASS guy that has so much love to give and thinks he is Jesus-----> thats is defn not defintion of BAD ASS Boyfriend.

Good guys that befriend with their Warcraft and dont have any REAL friends are unattractive, however, these are guys that dont tend have to alot of female friends, nor do they have guy friends that organise Guys night every other 2 nights, so to girls, they seem the perfect candidate, but would they know what to say to charm you? If they dont have experience with many girls, how you think they will act around you? After all practice makes perfect, and thats with relationships too!

I must say, bad boys are great boyfriends, but when relationship turns to MARRIAGE, every girl wants their husband to be GOOD... haha.. now I wish he would stay home and chat with their Warcraft friends online and not online checking out what soccer match is available to bet...but no one is perfect let alone your husband!!

後備情人 (a.k.a the Substitute Lover)

Sunday was spent quietly at home, was planning to go see Mummy III, but decided to fark it since it was too hard to get tickets (unless we want to sit in the first 3 rows in the theatre). Ended up watching a fairly stupid Cantonese movie called 我的最愛 (a.k.a My Beloved), starring Stephy and Alex Fong.

I thought the most interesting part of the story was when they talked about having substitute lovers. It started when a guy and a girl met each other cause they worked in the same area. Both of them were attached in a stable relationship, the guy was out with a girl thats slightly older than him and with a bad temper, the girl was attached to a young entrepreneur who provides her living means. As time passed, both had developed feelings towards one another, and they started this Substitute Lover contract between themselves. What it meant was, they will be each other's back up when their real other half were unable to be with them. They would meet up and have sex or do whatever, whenever their other 1/2 wasn't available. This continued for awhile until 1 day the guy no longer wanted to be the BACK UP and asked the girl to end things with her real bf. Of course, nothing its as easy as they seemed, the girl like the boy no doubt, but she was not willing to give up what she had with her young entrepreneur for him. (I guess we live in a realistic world and sometimes choosing between Love and Bread is extremely difficult, and most girls would prefer having Bread now days.)

I guess the example just proofs how sad this world had become, people who had found True Love merely make it their substitute or alternative. They rather be with someone that they don't really have feelings for, but merely for other means. I had encounter many examples of such relationships, and it never ends well.

I dedicate this post to my friends who are single and still searching for Love, please be strong, don't merely be with someone cause its convenient. Listen to you heart and have Faith.

Faith

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Stereotyping

Just had a funny conversation with a fellow xangan...it seems we generalise about people alot these days. Llike when reading Chinkzilla's post, he simply likes to go after korean girls base on a few known facts and that he thinks they are more compatible to his needs. Or like me, I had always hated intercultural relationships,  I just dont see a future when going out with a person with a complete different cultural background, in the end, it just too much work and too much compromises, and it totally disrupts the quality of the relationship, and thats something I wanted to avoid. During the conversation, my friend has a Japanese girlfriend, immediately, the first thing that pops up in my head was, "Wow, you must have a wonderful sex life!, my guy friends all wanted to have a relationship with japanese girls purely because they are wild in bed!"

However, instead of an agreement to my typical steretyping statement, his response was "you will be surprise that chinese girls are actually more wild in bed compare to most japanese!"

I was dumbfounded.

Maybe we stereotype too much.