4 3 Weddings and a Funeral

First I want to say Congrats to my friend HARLO (recently met), his recent wedding pics from Maui were amazing, he is truly lucky to have HarPor by his side (she is HOT). It is wierd how Tram Guys still get beautiful ladies.(Harlo is assumed to be the Tram type   from my observations). Maybe their love life is not as Vacant as the hit Japanese Drama 電車男 portrays them to be, but I guess HarLo is also lucky not looking like the guy from the tv drama , in this case, they are defn not Beauty and the Beast!

1 down, 3 more to go. Originally, 2 in November, and 1 in Jan 2010! It was all wonderful until recently when F announced the sad breakup between her and MrLai. Its never good to hear breakup news, especially when you are friends with both, its hard to pick side. A general rule of thumb for me is: always stick by the girl….i hope dohjai and ee can help MrLai go through this rough time, hope he can see the logic behind F’s decision, i am sure she decided she cannot go through with the wedding with strong reasonings, and its better to know NOW then later. I pray for them, and hope Cupid will find them someone perfect soon!

the Wedding in Jan 2010 will be a blast, finally the last Golden Girl is walking down the aisle! and i never thought the last one would be Jas, always thought she will come closely after me! and man, its about time, especially when i am already a mother of 1! I am going to gym 5 times a week trying to look HOT again for this wedding, well, thats the only thought thats going through my head while killing myself over Spin or Body Combat classs, or when i am disabling my thighs doing squats with 5kgs weights on my back, and today, i challenged myself toYOGA, it was pretty interesting until struggling a pose which nearly broke my back!(i THINK the instructor thought i was a total retard cos he didnt even try to correct my poses when he walked pass me, but he was helping many others…..) i hope all this hard work means i can put on a fairly nice dress and not look like a beach whale when comparing myself all the skin and bones in Singapore!

While njoying all the wonderful wedding news, it was also accompany by the sad news of P’s passing. P was not a close friend, but in the short time of our friendship, he was truly an inspiration. He taught me the basics of photograhy, slowly guiding me through Aperture 101, Shutterspeed 101 & his favourite, Composition 101. Knowing he only picked up photography for 1 year, and his photos already looked like cover of magazines, I feel so small whenever we share our works after our photography outings. If only I know there was a time frame to our friendship, i think i will like to listen to his comments more. If heaven is the same as what Susie Salmon (from “the lovely bones”) describes, i am sure we will meet again for we both want to take amazing shots from the Paradise….. shall by missed by many.. RIP.

P

Reading his blog right now.. although it saddens me, but somehow i kept on reading….warm tears building up, but trying hard to hold back… what seemed to be a not so meaningful photoshoot meetings, somehow the faces and conversations are all oming back to me …..like watching mytv.com…a replay.. a video……

if we can also be a wizard, be harry potter, save all the memories in a pensieve.. reviewing when we need to, it will be too good to be true

I Love Daddy!

Lau BB and Siu Hang

 

 Little Taps

My Little Ashton

DOB 31st March 2009

Me!

恭喜發財

24 Weeks

Yes, time flies, cant believe i am already 6 months pregnant!! My recent ultrasound shows a big and healthy baby growing inside me. Doctor says little Ashton’s (Yes we named hime already hehe ^c*) head size is larger than average(just like his father, ). Ashton weights around 1.09 pounds now.

I will soon go for a 4-D scan which will actually show us the baby’s facial features, unlike now where ultrasound only shows me x-ray kind of images. Doctor says 4-D Scan helps parents gain a stronger bond with their baby when he is born since we have an idea of what our child will look like. I ask many parents about the 4-D scan, and 90% of them are telling me the 4-D scan is pretty accurate(as in when their child was born, he/she resembles strongly to the 4-D pictures). Once i get the scan done, will defn scan the pics and upload here to share!

My Childhood Buddies

There is 1 girlfriend KH which i am still very much in touch with, we known each other the longest, practically since the day we born (still have 1 photograph of both us when we were a few months old? very very cute^c*). Its amazing how after all these years we can still come out and chat about the old days, laugh at our own stupidity and silliness, how good it was to be kids then…although we lived our lives separately in different parts of the world, there was always a bond when we meet up again. I am glad God had granted me her friendship, although we might not be as close now as we were kids, but there is always a connection which holds us together, afterall she is practically family to me and i am glad to have her in my life.

Recently, another childhood friend had floated out from the deep end of the ocean. I dont remember when our family had grown apart, or what happend exactly, but i had not seen or heard from them for at least 10 years. I was shocked to hear my mum having dinner with them one night a few weeks ago. When i spoke to my mum, she was very happy to have met with them again, she told me she cried and got abit emotional,. she was very happy to know  they are all ok even when their family experienced some tragic downturns. Out of the 3 children, me and KH were closest to the Son, CK, who is around the same age as us. My memories of him still revolved around him and his superman underpants and how we always try to pull jokes on him since he was the only BOY there.

As soon as I got his contact from my mum, I was keen to organise a gathering with CK and KH. it was just dinner on a monday night., but it was nice, we chatted about past and present…..but not so much about KH’s past years.. but I am sure CK understood that it was a tough time for her back a few years ago.

The most annoying thing which I found was how CK looked much younger than us, although I WAS SUPPOSE TO BE YOUNGEST. I guess chinese male had always had the advantage of looking younger compare to femeles.

To CK: I am glad to have gotten back in contact with you, I guess there are always some friends in life which we think about when you had lost contact with them, and you were defn 1 of them. Although you had some rough time in the past years, but its not the end of the tunnel yet.. there are still much things in life worth living and pursuing for, and you have a long way to go. I am sure you will be able to live your life the way you want very soon….