July 18, 2008
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Marry Young
this is sort of a follow up post to the last one, want to say, younger man marrying older women does exist, the guy is even willingly making commitment to her and not merely for the sake of trying out older women. i was extremely surprise that there is true love with a large age gap.
The question here is, can true love over-ride all problems associated with a age gap marriage? When 2 people seem to be on a constant time lag, will it turn into a communication break down. examples of problems include: 1) Younger husband has loads of energy to do more things, namely, drinks after work, partying after work, (probably want more sex), anything after work but HOME, comparing to older women who already went past the stage of seeing Friends every week night, and that they just prefer a quiet evening at home, watching dvd, you put the 2 together = constant arguing about what they want to do daily. 2) Can younger husband bare the responsibility of fatherhood, when in general, men tend to MATURE much later than women, but his wife would already want to have a child, as her biological clock is totally ticking and practically screaming out to her to get freaking pregnant before its too late!! What to do!? how to solve?! I personally have no clue.3)Priorities of things to do, this is always an issue, (younger)husband will probably like to spend all his money on anything, clothes, races, soccer, stupid figurines and toys.. i guess they are not all that keen about savings...investment.. retirement.. whatever! i know i wasn't thinking about these things when i was 24 haa..i was thinking about holidays.. new gucci.. a new pair of louboutins (ok maybe only marc jacobs then)...the (more mature)wife will probably be worried to death about the finances.. cos she knows she don't want to work forever, cos working is just so freaking tiring.. when can they ever afford HER not working... or when can working not be about making a living.. it is an rather an action where one can waste time and making a few extra dollars for vanities.. can the guy take the heat, work hard, climb up the ladder faster than average, and get the ultimate Golden Employment Package to free the wife from the rest of the working class?
this list can go on forever. but i am tired..
Ultimately, will True Love suffice in these marriage?
Comments (6)
Yes, only true love does. And from what you wrote, I am the mature type of wife then! ahahahhahahaahhaha
@elsahylee - dont be silly.. u are the DEI B type
the (more mature)wife will probably be worried to death about the finances.. cos she knows she don't want to work forever, cos working is just so freaking tiring.. when can they ever afford HER not working... or when can working not be about making a living.. it is an rather an action where one can waste time and making a few extra dollars for vanities.. can the guy take the heat, work hard, climb up the ladder faster than average, and get the ultimate Golden Employment Package to free the wife from the rest of the working class? <--i was refering to this part!! ehehhe
They say women only reach their sexual peak when they're in their early to mid thirties, so theoretically, if she was with a younger man at his peak (early twenties), I reckon they'll be doing nothing but bonking all day and night.
haha
I find that older men sleep all the time while I have waaay too much energy to do stuff.
@Amuse_Bouche - i think 3-4 years gap are totally fine.. thats both man older than the woman and vice versa!
random e-propss ; return dee love <3
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